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[原创]2003年6月5日,麻木地被句

[日期:2005-01-22] 来源:ChaseDream论坛 作者:mayflower [字体: ]

之前就想好了,过不过都要写签经,而且也确实觉得有些内容会对大家有帮助,所以,还是写写吧, 希望能够帮助CD的朋友们, 希望大家都能顺利.

早上226号,9点多到的,到11点快半了才排到,一直站着,累的不得了,已经麻木了。劝大家早点去。到了10点只过了2,3个,有1个学生摸样的,后来过了一个PSU的女孩,后来我旁边的那队放了一个女孩MBA,放了一个PHD。我后面有一个MBA,不知他后来怎样,还有一个很可爱的女孩5000,希望她能过把。好几对年迈的父母看孩子都句,真不明白都这么老了,还有什么理由呆在那边混。

我是黑色牌,站到了唯一一个女VO,心里一沉,估计悬,站前面的一个MBA没过,然后就是我,看到旁边一队过了一个MBA一个PHD好羡慕。

V Hi (满脸笑容)
Me: Hi
V You graduated from PKU.
Me: yes, 4 years ago.
V and you worked for company B for 4 years.  (很知道这个公司,边笑,边欣赏状)
Me: it's 3.5 years. Before B, i wored at A for half a year.
V yes, ah, it's also in the xxx industry. you do like xxx.(很兴奋的样子)
Me: yes
VO走开,和同事交谈2分钟。
Vwhy you changed your job from company A to B?
Me: because in A, I wad doing sales. I definitely knew i wanna do marketing, so i quit and joined B to do marketing.
Vwhat's ur salary?
Me: x,xxx per month.
V smiling: so last year you wanted to go to USC.
Me: yes, the program was also designed for marketing managers. But this year i got a better offer. This program has two features that are specifically suitable for me. First, it has a concentration in Consumer goods marketing. Consumer goods is my field. Second, it allows students to design their own concentrations. I want to study not only marketing but also entrepreneurship.
她一直在听,很专注,还紧盯着我的眼睛。
V how many schools have u applied?
Me: four. all of them gave me admission and two gave me scholarship.
V wow (边笑,边欣赏状).....what are they?
Me: they are 1,2,3,4.
她一直目不转睛地看着我,我觉得有点烦,说的时候眼睛离开了她的脸2-3次,我觉得就是这几次游历,给了她不好的印象,不够自信吧。
V so what .....after u finish the program?
Me: you mean after graduation? I'll come back to find a senior marketing job in a big company. I want to know, from the top management level, the marketing strategy level, why they can be successful in China's market. And then I'll set up my own company providing marketing consulting to local companies. I want to use my experience, network and advanced marketing knowledge learned from the US to help them to be more competitive in the market. Many local companies have good products, but they just lack of marketing professionals.
一直听我说,一直盯着我的眼睛,很和蔼,但是觉得她好象根本就没听进去,我倒希望她能打断我,揪着其中的某点和我argue, 这至少说明她在思考,但是,没有,根本就不问任何问题,静静地听完,静静地说sorry.
Me: why? i have assistantship!
V it's not financial reason.
Me: It's hard to get a decent marketing job in the US. I'm not doing others. I 'm doing marketing!
V sorry I can't believe you'll come back. sorry.
整个过程,我带的所有东西都没有看。

总结:
1。要么早点去,要么晚点去,要么吃好点早饭。今年和去年不一样,去年真的是按顺序叫,所以不会站这么久。但是今年很乱,到了就进,也不管号码。对了,那个别迟到的帖子不属实, 迟到了没关系,不会不让你进的。
2。要自信。我一直告诉自己要自信,但是和她eye contact时候还是经常眼神游离,她可能会认为我在背答案,或者在编答案,或者,至少说出来的话没有底气,不显的自信吧。

我也不知道为什么,别的面试都不成问题,和那么多学校的interview都有说有笑,镇定自若的,但是一到了这个地方就什么都表现不出来了。突然感觉很可笑,来了那么多次,努力了那么多年,一边工作,一边考试,申请,写essays, 耽误了那么多时间和精力,让老爸老妈担惊受怕地(去年被句2次),就因为这短短的一次站着的谈话,这么多年的努力就这样变成了零。而这种谈话又有多少依据呢,谁又真的知道自己毕业后的计划呢,读PHD的都说5年以后回来做教授,读MBA的,都说回来找工作或开公司,但是几年以后的事谁又知道呢,越具体的计划不觉得显得越假吗.

真不明白为什么会有人愿意做VO这种职业,每个去签证的人背后都有不知道多少辛酸的故事,夫妻分离的见不到,父母参加不了孩子的毕业典礼,开会的不能如期参加,拿到录取的却永远走不进讲堂,他们就这样决定别人的命运,不怕遭老天报应吗。 这种方式真的是一种耻辱,希望我们这一代人好好努力,不要象那些中国人那样宁愿成为难民身份(我同事的同学),宁愿顶着硕士的学位去面试洗厕所的工作(我同学班里的)也要留在外国,也希望中国尽快富强起来,希望我们的子孙不会再受到这样的耻辱。

我还没有决定还要不要再去4000,手里还有一个剑桥的MBA和一个新加坡国立的MBA的admission,剑桥的1年MBA费用是45万人民币,觉得倾家荡产学了回来,也不一定能找到多牛的工作,所以也很犹豫。觉得是不是新加坡也不错啊,便宜,而且毕业说不定能在那边找到工作,积累点亚洲的海外经验。大家给我点意见吧,我太累了,我的心智已经被耗尽了。

 


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